Dear Diary, 
I don't understand this show "Temptation Island" ... That is probably really fucking odd coming from something who is living a poly lifestyle... I can respect that... but... It's different. These people have what seem to be strong relationships and for money and a little spotlight, your dumb ass is about to invite people who are also paid to come on in and do all they can to fuck up your relationship... 

In poly we aren't looking to give outsiders a green light to behave like complete trash and see if they can cause problems and destroy me and Daddy. In poly we trust, love and respect another human fully and conditionally to give them complete freedom to explore other bonds with other humans and still come back to you because to them you feel like home. We also set out to respect any other potiental partners relationships that they have. 

If you go out into the world trying to test each other and see if someone can mess it all up, I promise you they will. If you go into a Poly relationship with the idea that you can break someones primary relationship for your own ego boost I would be willing to bet you will be the one who walks away real damn sad...