Edit: I lied. One of the rings accepted me, the other is just sitting.
They're totally at the control of the owner, I haven't got multi-admin set up yet so if the owner doesn't log on often or check it you could end up sitting in the queue to join forever.
I'll work on getting notifications set up for acceptance, it should be in the update to come. In theory.
Oh, polls! And forums!
No, not the forums. Last time I suggested that, I killed MindSay and made Underground1986 angry. Don't take my suggestions seriously.