Today my dad called me and told me to stop procrastinating on all the projects I have around the house, because when they visited the house was a mess from all the projects I need to do. 

1. Fuck you.
2. I'm working full time, getting my master's degree (part-time), and I have a chronic illness that makes me constantly tired and in pain, and will eventually leave me crippled. I'm already doing a lot, so it's fine if my house is messy - I've got a lot of shit going on.
3. My house is still cleaner than theirs.

I literally just found out I'm going to become crippled, and I will be in pain for the rest of my life. Could they just not kick me while I'm already down? Please? 

No matter what I do it will never be good enough. If I vacuum the entire house once a week, I'm told that I should be doing it every day (even though they do it 2 or 3 times a year, max). 
Get my master's degree, like they always told me I should? Get scolded about having too much student debt (how the fuck was I supposed to avoid that? Rob a bank?)

And now they act like I'm just being lazy! How is this lazy? I'm working full time! While going to school part-time! While dealing with non-stop pain and fatigue! And being told that I'm going to be crippled soon! And I still have lung damage from COVID! This is literally more than they have ever had to deal with all at once, and I think I'm doing a great job! I still go to work, I still get A's, and I still force myself to do the stretches that will help delay me being crippled even though I'm tired and they hurt! I'm doing an amazing job at life, work, school, and not letting my illness crush me!